Saturday Evening

First off, apologies to the Xanga friends to whom I’m subscribed.  The first six days of my trip have been so busy that I am very behind on reading and commenting on your entries.  I’ll get back into the groove.

Spoke with Tawn this afternoon and he arrived in Verona in one piece as did his parents.  They went this evening to the house of their hosts, the Mamones, whose daughter is getting married this Saturday.  When I called Tawn, he was inside a shop and just stepping out.  “Arrivederci!” he said.  Cute, huh?

 

Updates

Before I write about Saturday evening, let me embed two videos I shot Friday evening at Martuni’s in SF.  Both are of Anne Marie singing.  The first is of “I’ve Got the Sun in the Morning” from Annie Get Your Gun and the second is of “Close to You” by the Carpenters.  Video quality is doubly poor: bad light and then a lot of compression.  Add to that a lot of ambient noise.  But it will give you an idea of AM’s wonderful voice and the fun we had.

And now, on to our show…

After returning from the East Bay on Saturday afternoon, I ran some errands to check off the shopping list.  Last stop: REI at Eighth and Brennan.  Inconvenient location for transit access and I ended up walking all the way back to Anita’s house at Church and Market.  You quickly come to realize that walking on hills uses different leg muscles than walking the flat streets of Khrungthep.  My shins were aching!

Below: Walking past the San Francisco mint, where your coins come from.

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No sooner had I returned home and freshened up then I had to head out to meet Chris and his new boyfriend Rob for dinner at Catch, a seafood restaurant in the Castro.  For years I have lamented the general lack of good dining in the Castro and Catch proved to be a nice exception to that perception.

Below: The intersection of Market and Castro Streets, ground zero of the gay community in SF, on a very cool and overcast early evening.

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Chris and I met on the CalTrain commuter rail in the days when I regularly commuted to Mountain View to conduct training classes.  It turned out that he lived just down the street from Anita and me (Tawn was also living with us at that time before he moved into his own place near USF) and he quickly became a special person in our lives. 

Below: Chris and Rob in front of City Hall.

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It was especially nice to see him again and after dinner, the three of us headed to the Herbst Theatre in the Civic Center to see GAPA Runway.  GAPA is the Gay Asian Pacific Alliance, an organization dedicated to furthering the interests of gay and bisexual Asian/Pacific Islanders by creating awareness, developing a positive collective identity, and by establishing a supportive community.

Below: Me in front of City Hall.  how come I’m so much smaller than Chris and Rob?

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Runway, an event that can best be explained as the annual Miss GAPA and Mister GAPA pageant, celebrated its 20th anniversary this year.  It is a fun time and I ran into many friends, several of whom I have not seen in many years.  I also understand that several other Xangans and boyfriends of Xangans were there.  Just a reminder of how tightly knit the community is.

Below: Jordan, Wilford, me and Jordan’s sister Angel.  Jordan was Mr GAPA 2006 and, as such, was both in full costume and also a judge.  Wilford was dressed in something classier but less flashy.  Angel flew up for the event from Arizona.  What a supportive sister!

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The event ran on quite long.  Longer, in fact, than the Miss America pageant.  There were many creative participants and a good time was had by all.  Sadly, by the time it wrapped up, I didn’t have the energy to go to the after party.

To give you some idea of what the event was like, here are a couple of videos from YouTube.  I didn’t take or post these, so no speaking to the quality or how risque they are.

 

Another busy day of vacation filled up! 

 

Saturday Daytime

There’s a little bit of repeat here since I didn’t have pictures ready to go a couple of entries ago.

Saturday morning Anita was still down in the South Bay so I woke up to an empty house.  After pulling on a sweatshirt I walked several blocks to Tartine, the Delfino-owned bakery and cafe at 18th and Guerrero.

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I previously mentioned about the French visitors who occupied a pair of tables next to me and helped my sympathize with Tawn.  The food was so good on the first visit that I made a second trip on Tuesday morning.  I’ll combine the pictures into this entry.

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The interior is always crowded and there is a large communal table that people – as the name implies – share.  Instead of numbers, they use letters.  Interesting, huh?

First dish: zucchini and tomato quiche

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Follow-up dish: morning bun on the left and bread pudding with peaches and olallieberries the size of your thumb on the right.  Remember – this was over two days, not at a single meal.

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Later in the morning I headed over to Oakland to meet Bruce and Howie for lunch.  The destination: Zachary’s Pizza.  Celebrating 25 years, Zachary’s deep-dish stuffed crust pizza is an amazing, amazing thing to eat.  Below, the College Avenue location, about two minutes away from Rockridge BART station.

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The pizza in question – double crust stuffed with spinach and mushrooms with a spicy tomato sauce on top.

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Moments before we dig in.  Bruce on the left and Howie on the right.

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Afterwards, we enjoyed the sunny afternoon for a bit before driving back over to the City.  What a treat!

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Next entry… Saturday evening and GAPA’s 20th Anniversary Runway show.

 

News from Tawn:

Tawn arrived in Paris Saturday morning and was enjoying his first day in the city of lights.  While Ryeroam was working Tawn explored the city and enjoyed a little petite dejuener at a sidewalk cafe.

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Friday Night

Friday night after arriving in SF at 8:05 I rushed to Anita’s house.  After a little freshening up I walked down the street to Martuni’s, the piano – karaoke bar.  Anne Marie was singing.  While singing isn’t her profession, she takes lessons and has a beautiful voice.  You’ll find her there about once a month, singing from her big book of showtunes and standards.

Below, Albert, Anne Marie and me.

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There was quite a crowd and AM had her fan club.  Her parents were in town as well as her sister and brother.  Her sister is also quite the singer and took a couple of turns at the microphone.

Anne Marie’s second set included “I’ve Got the Sun in the Morning” and “Close to You”.  Wonderful job on both.

Later, the pianist was entertaining the crowd with any number of songs that had the audience eating out of his hand, singing along with him.  Below, Albert gets into the act as AM’s sister Carolyn and friend Bill look on.

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Arriving home quite late, about 1:00, I took half a sleeping pill and called it a night.  Thankfully, it was a full night’s sleep and I was uninterrupted until the morning’s glow woke me at 8:00 Saturday.

 

Party Like It’s 1977

P1070595 This was meant to be my last entry before leaving for the US, but then I had difficulties uploading the movie to YouTube. 

Strangely, I’ve been directly loading Adobe Flash files from Premiere Elements to YouTube – a built-in feature – and up until last week it worked fine. 

Suddenly, YouTube no longer is able to process the files.  So I’m using a Windows Media File format.  Strange, eh?

Wednesday night Tawn’s employer celebrated their 10th Anniversary in Thailand with a gala costume party, the theme of which was “The Oscars”. 

Everyone dressed up, sometimes in a not so “Oscar” theme.  Tawn decided to go with something in a 1970s theme and so borrowed a few outfits from our designer Ble.

Originally, I was going to post these photos as ostensible outfits Tawn was considering for his trip, but didn’t know if someone might take me seriously!

Rest assured, Tawn didn’t wear anything nearly so outrageous.  Below, some of the other outfits:

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And even I was dragged into the action, so to speak:

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Here’s some video:

Hope you enjoyed it!

Here in SF.  The flight over was smooth, touching down at a very chilly SFO at five minutes past eight, Friday evening.  Once again, I am impressed by EVA Airway’s value.  Elite Economy has extra room and good comfort for the money.  Here’s a picture of me after boarding in BKK.

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Immigration was surprisingly swift.  I literally walked up to the agent with no wait in line.  Fortunately, I was a bit ahead of much of the crowd so some of that is just good luck.  The agent stamped me in before even scanning my passport; guess I no longer look like an illegal alien.

By 9:30 I had arrived at Anita’s house.  She left her key with Corey, her downstairs tenant, and so I had no problems getting in and getting settled.  After freshening up, I headed down to Martuni’s, a piano bar cum karaoke lounge, to hear Anne Marie sing.  More on this later as I have some nice pictures and some good video footage.

Afterwards, very hungry, I stopped at It’s Tops, a diner on Market Street that dates back to 1935.  Had two eggs over easy, two links of sausage, and three buttermilk pancakes that were so much better than any pancakes I’ve had in Khrungthep!

P1070921 Saturday morning (as I write) I am at Tartine, a cute little cafe on the corner of Guerrero and 18th in the Mission District.  I am sitting outside even though it is a little cool.  In a moment of supreme empathy with Tawn, who I assume has arrived safely in Paris, I am drinking my latte from a bowl and eating a slice of tomato and zucchini quiche.  To top it off, a group of French people (along with their local host) have arrived and are chatting in French and eating croissants at the tables to my left.  Tres chic!

 

I’ll be heading off to San Francisco, Kansas City and Los Angeles in a few hours.  I’ll try to keep my blog updated but my apologies if there are some gaps in coverage.

 

My Carbon-Neutral Flight

Gas Free Fridays Here’s a concept the San Francisco Bicycle Coalition and other groups are promoting: Gas-Free Fridays.  As a way to reduce gasoline consumption, save money and help the environment, they suggest you park the car (i.e. leave it at home) and get around town via transit or, better yet, under your own power.

A really good idea and one that would benefit our waistlines, too.  I’m going to do my part, too, and leave the car at home today.  Unfortunately, my good intentions will be for naught.  Excluding the taxi ride to the airport (which runs on compressed natural gas, so maybe it is a bit cleaner), my 8,049-mile trip to San Francisco today will result in the emission of 3.92 tons of carbon dioxide, according to Carbonfund.org’s carbon calculator.  The cost to assuage my guilt?  $37.62 for the one-way trip.

After getting to this point in the entry, I realized that if I was going to wreak such havock on the world like some uncaring Titan, I had best own up to it and offset that destruction.  No amount of bringing cloth bags to the grocery store was going to offset almost 8 tons of CO2. 

While I originally looked up the information just as content for this entry, I went ahead and offset the cost of my round-trip flight, although I realize now that I forgot to add the domestic flights.  Well, I can go back and do that.

 

Tawn continued mixing and matching outfits for his trip.  He appreciates the feedback and critiques you have provided.  Here are two final outfits:

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Final thoughts and feedback need to be received in the next few hours.

 

As a last note in this entry, I’ve discovered we have a small gecko living with us.  Normally he is in the bathroom, where I think he lives behind the toiletries cabinet.  But one evening this week he was running around the kitchen window.  This was the best picture I could get of him.  He doesn’t stand still for very long.

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Tawn is freaked out by him but I appreciate the significantly fewer insects we have flying around.  Also, I notice the ant problem has diminished.  Perhaps he likes ants, too?

Finally, here’s a shot I took as we sat in traffic last weekend, emitting carbon dioxide and other foul fumes while running errands.

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I think I should do a book of pictures of families on motorcycles.  Between here and Ho Chi Minh City, I could fill thousands of pages.

 

Secret images snuck in from Soi Soonvijai

Recently Tawn asked me to upload some photos from his camera so I could email them to a friend.  Along the way I took an opportunity (with his permission, of course) to see what other interesting snaps he had in there that he wasn’t sharing with the world.

Here are some recent, highly sensitive and extremely confidential images snuck out of his parents’ house on Soi Soonvijai.  Shhh!  Don’t tell Khun Sudha. 

Soonvijai is a soi (alley/side street) off of Phetchaburi Road.  Bangkok Hospital is off the main soi, but then it branches into more than a dozen sub-sois.  Tawn’s childhood home is between the fifth and sixth sub-sois of the fourteenth soi off Soonvijai.  Nomenclature for that sould be:

Phetchaburi Road, Soi Soonvijai 14/5-6

Now you know something about reading addresses in Thailand.  Interesting little digression, huh?

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Their property is comparable in size to two typical 1960s era suburban American lots, back in the days when houses in the US had yards and not just shoulders.  Khun Sudha (Tawn’s father) is an avid gardener and has used his green thumb to create a verdant oasis, above.

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Here is Khun Nui (Tawn’s mother) in the middle of the property, near a little courtyard that leads off the kitchen.  The older section of the house is behind her.  To the left is the three-story addition that was built about four years ago.  Because a lot of Khun Sudha’s brothers and sisters live in adjacent properties and there is a lot of socializing between the families, the addition includes a large room on the entire ground floor for dining and gatherings, along with a very nice partially-covered deck on the top floor.

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Khun Sudha just picked up a new set of wheels – the 2008 Honda Accord.  Swanky, huh?  To keep the cars out of the sun, there is a covered car park area that can hold four or five vehicles, including his old U.S. Army Jeep that he drove in his youth up in Buriram Province.

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Taking the family out for a spin, Khun Tawn takes the opportunity to snap a father-son picture.  I think Tawn should grow a moustache so he looks like his father.

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Khun Nui chills on the spacious leather rear seats with her Audrey Hepburn cat’s eye sunglasses.  Now you know where Tawn gets his fashion sense.

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Back at home on July 1st, Khun Sudha celebrates his birthday with a dessert Tawn picked up at Le Notre and a glass of wine.

So there is the top secret footage inside the life of Khun Tawn.  But if anyone asks, you didn’t get it from me!

 

Maybe time for some sprucing up?

In the three years that I’ve written this blog, the look and feel have remained largely the same.  Sure, after the first year I modified the colour scheme a bit, but only by a matter of a few shades.

At one point I added the “What’s Happening” box on the left hand side, to enter upcoming events.  But that was very time consuming to update and, frankly, I don’t think too many people were coming to my blog as a source of current entertainment information in Khrungthep.

Along the way, I’ve stubbornly stuck to the old look and feel while a new “Xanga Skins” feature was added that allows much greater range in terms of graphics. 

But maybe it is time for some sprucing up, a little bit of of nipping and tucking, a fresh coat of paint, and some slip covers to give the place a fresh new look for the start of the fourth year.

Perhaps while I’m on holiday I’ll play around with it a bit and try some things out.  I can always come back to this skin, if needed.  Thoughts?

 

Weekend of Wrapping Up Errands

The lead up to Friday’s trip has included the checking off of dozens of items on our “to do before leaving” list:

  • Go to the dentist
  • Stop by the bank
  • Choose gifts for people
  • Complete my “to buy” list
  • Etc, etc, etc…

I’m happy to report that I’m quite a bit further along the list than I usually am at this point in preparation, so I won’t be too stressed out over the next few days.  That said, I have a ton of work to prepare before leaving so that will make up for any stress I avoid by being organized.

Late last week I baked my final loaf of whole wheat sourdough bread.  The day before I leave I’ll have to feed the sourdough starter again, but it should survive twenty days in the refrigerator okay.  You’ll recall that I had some problems with my baguette pan last time – the loaf rose into the perforations and I couldn’t remove it. 

This time I wisely used some parchment paper to line the pan and the results were much nicer.  The natural yeast was getting a bit out of hand, though, as the dough was rising over the side of the pan and resulted in a slightly deformed loaf.  I’ll have to keep working on this next month.  One of these days, it will look right as well as taste right!

Below: Before (left) and after (right)

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SNC10434 On Tawn’s list of things to get done before leaving is some writing for magazines. 

He’s writing a guest article in Elle Thailand, this one about climbing the career ladder.  We did some brainstorming beforehand – I write corporate training materials for a company in the US, Canada and the UK so have addressed this topic before – and then he applied those ideas to the likely Elle readers, giving it a Thai twist.

Tawn’s becoming a male Thai Carrie Bradshaw, what with all his writing.

He’s also preparing some recipes for an upcoming interview by a health and fitness magazine.  The column for which he is being interviewed focuses on various Thai men and asks them to include a recipe they like to prepare.  He’s been experimenting with salmon baked en papillote served with a couscous salad.  So far the results are tasty.  The interview and photo shoot (“I promise it won’t be crazy like the shoots for the house were!” he says) are on Thursday.

 

We Will Rock You Sunday night we joined a group of friends at The Esplanade, an self-styled “arte-tainment” mall, for the touring production of We Will Rock You

Based on the music of rock band Queen, We Will Rock You is set in a Matrix-esque future in which the world (now named Planet Mall) is run by the Globalsoft Corporation, which controls all aspects of consumer culture.  Music (other than the computer generated bubblegum pop made by Globalsoft) is forbidden.

One young misfit, Galileo, hears strange sounds and words in his head, not understanding the significance of them.  It turns out that he is The Dreamer, who a prophecy has foretold will find the hidden musical instruments and return rock and roll to the world, freeing the populace from the grips of Globalsoft.

Critically panned, the musical was enthusiastically embraced by audiences in London and elsewhere, thanks to the familiar music and accessible storyline.  Khrungthep audiences haven’t been so receptive.  Despite scads of publicity, the theatre was only about one-quarter full last night.  Rock musicals probably aren’t very appealing to Thai audiences.

It was an enjoyable enough show, although played at such an amplified level that I couldn’t understand most of the lyrics.  It is funny that when you listen to the songs from the soundtrack, they are mixed and amplified in a way that allows you to hear the lyrics, which really help drive the story.  But live, it is played so loud that the words get lost.

I know, I know… I’m becoming one of those grumpy oldsters who complain about the volume.  Let me add one better to that, then:

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When we arrived at the mall, there was a full blown concert going on in the center courtyard, above.  This is an inside section of the mall and the sound was unbelievably loud.  Here’s a little video I shot to give you a sense of the experience:

I think it is unreasonably loud, especially since any number of the restaurants in the mall face onto the courtyard.  Very difficult to enjoy a dinner there with this music blaring.