Face by Big Pharma, Body by DuPont

(Yeah, I know you never expected to see a bunch of celebrity photos on my blog, but there’s a first time for everything.)

Do you remember the scene in the movie LA Story where Rick Moranis, playing a grave digger in an uncredited cameo, riffs on the Bard’s Hamlet?   As he talks with Steve Martin’s character, he explains how it takes the bodies of Beverly Hills women so long to decompose because their skin has been tan for so long that it resists the water.  That and all those unnatural implants help preserve them.

MSNBC Senior Health Editor Julia Sommerfeld has something to say about the artificial changes people make to their bodies, particularly their faces, in the online article Pursuit of Youth Isn’t Always Pretty.  The title continues, “Reality check on the war on wrinkles: Looking younger or just weirder?”  Which pretty much says it all.

I’m skeptical about cosmetic surgery.  “To each his own,” my grandmother would say, and I fundamentally agree.  I’m not about to march out and protest in front of plastic surgery clinics in the same way that anti-choice activists do.  But I’m concerned when people tie their self-esteem so much to their looks.  Yeah, I know that society (easy target, let’s blame “Society” for everything) bombards us with images and messages that equate looks with happiness, but aren’t we all heading to the same end?  What if we spent the time, money, and mental energy on something more satisfying and more impactful?

Clint Eastwood  Wayne Newton

Above: Clint Eastwood, left, and Wayne Newton, right.

This article illustrates my point rather nicely.  In a slide show, Dr. Tony Youn, a Michigan-based certified plastic surgeon, reviewed before and after photos of twenty-one celebrities to evaluate who has had what done to them (or not) and with what results.  Interesting and instructive.  The people who haven’t had anything done really have aged nicely, wrinkles and all.  No doubt they’ve followed a regimen of skincare, but no signs of any implants, injections, lifts, nips or tucks.  The people who have had some work done look okay at best, frightening at worst, and oddly unnatural for the most part.

Susan Sarandon  Joan Van Ark

michael_jackson I know the pressure on women in Hollywood is greater than on men.  Men get “handsome” and “dignified” as they age whereas women are perceived to just look “old”.  But looking at Susan Sarandon (above left) and Joan Van Ark (above right), I think that by just about any measure, Susan has aged much more beautifully au naturel than Joan has at the hands of her doctors.  And I don’t mean any disrespect to Joan or Wayne.  We all make our choices and I respect your right to do that. 

Makeup artist Bobbi Brown really makes the point when she says, near the conclusion of the article, that we’re confusing the issues of youth and beauty.  I fully agree.

Of course should there be any doubt, we can always use Michael Jackson as the perfect example of why cosmetic surgery is a slippery and downwards slope at the bottom of which neither youth nor beauty lies.

 

Learning Thai Online

When you live in a country for any length of time, I feel you are obligated both by good manners and cultural consideration to try and learn some of that country’s language.  Even if you are just going to visit another country for more than two or three days, I still feel you are again obligated by good manners and cultural consideration to try and learn at least a few key phrases.  “Please”, “Thank you”, “Excuse me”, “Hello” and “Goodbye” are good phrases with which to start.

My experience traveling is that I’ve enjoyed the places I’ve visited much more and received much friendlier, warmer interactions with locals when I’ve made some attempt to speak their language.  This was true in Italy, France and even Australia.  It has also held true when I lived in Hong Kong as well as now that I’m in Thailand.

Learning Thai can be intimidating for foreigners (especially those from Western countries), both because of the non-Roman script as well as the tonal nature of the language.  There are no shortage of tools to help people learn Thai.  If you are in the country, you have many schools as well as private tutors available.  These can be pretty effective resources, as I’ve shown. 

its4thai_logo Outside of Thailand, there are books, CDs, and several websites to use.  These are less effective, as nearly everyone who has used them can testify.  Over the past year, my friend Stuart has been designing a website that takes a very different and, in my opinion, much more effective approach to teaching Thai.  The website, ITS4Thai.com, has been running for a few weeks now and is getting a lot of traffic from around the world.

Not to make this sound like an advertisement, but there are a few things that I think are really effective about the website:

ITS Screen 1 Its highly interactive website uses a variety of games and activities to engage the learner.  As a professional trainer, I know that different people learn in different ways.  Some are visual learners, some are aural learners, some are tactile learners, etc.  ITS4Thai incorporates all those learning styles into the lessons.  Plus each lesson is just a “bite” of learning – only about ten vocabulary words and three or four sentence patterns.  By the time you’ve done the various activities, you’ll find it easy to remember because it is an easy to digest portion.

The format provides a lot of flexibility and real-life applicability.  You can conduct the lessons in whatever order makes the most sense for you.  It is easy to track your progress and choose the direction you want to take.  If you are going to be here on holiday, then choose the lessons that are most applicable to your interests.  If you are going to be here on business, make the appropriate choices.  If you’re going to live here… well, you get the idea.  Unlike a lot of other learning resources, that are laid out in a linear A-Z fashion, ITS4Thai gives you much more flexibility.

Finally, ITS4Thai is inexpensive.  All packages are less than US$20, so you can get a lot of learning without putting down a lot of money.  I truly wish that this option had been available to me in the year and a half before I moved to Thailand.  Had it been, I would have arrived much better prepared.

P1060446 Tawn and I have both been helping out Stuart.  Tawn has been providing PR, doing his first freelance job, and I’ve been helping with the editing of more than 100 additional lesson which will build upon the 60 that are currently on the site.  Needless to say, Tawn and I are both closely involved and enthusiastic about the site.

The results of the PR efforts have started to pay off.  After crafting a press release in both Thai and English, Tawn pitched a story to the education reporter for the English language newspaper Daily Express.  This past Friday, Stuart, Tawn and the reporter met at Starbucks Ari, above.  I tagged along and wound up being used as a model in one of the photo shoots.  Thankfully, those pictures were not used in the story!

ITS4Thai

Yesterday morning the story ran on page 3, a half page above the fold.  This was very good coverage and a success for Tawn’s freelancing efforts.  It was also, of course, a success for Stuart and ITS4Thai.  In addition to other press coverage and additional PR events, I’m hoping that many people will be drawn to this resource.

And as for you, dear reader, if you are considering a trip to Thailand, I hope you’ll take a look at ITS4Thai.com.  Stuart is offering ten free lessons at the site, so you can visit it, learn a little Thai, and evaluate the effectiveness of the website for yourself without having to commit any money.

 

Come over for breakfast, won’t you?

The second half of our weekend was more relaxing and less do-it-yourself than the first.  We had ten friends over for Sunday breakfast – a real breakfast, starting at 10:00, instead of one of those brunches.  Homemade buttermilk biscuits with sausage gravy; oven roasted potatoes and bell peppers; soft scrambled eggs with salsa; and assorted fruits.  Mimosas and fresh-brewed coffee and tea for those who were thirsty.

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What an interesting mix of guests we had.  Brian made it to our house for the first time as he had been out of town on occassions when we had previously invited him.  Stuart and Piyawat were both able to make it as were Ken and Chai.  Of course, no party is a party without Vic there, and Doug brought two guests:  One of them, Gaye, is a native of Istanbul who has been studying massage in Chiang Mai for the past several months before returning home this Wednesday. The other, Orn, works for the American Chamber of Commerce in Thailand in membership and outreach.  Needless to say, they both had such interesting stories to share.

Sometimes after we throw parties the question arises, “Was it worth the effort?”  While I did choose to do a little extra cooking Saturday evening to prepare (I rendered the drippings from some fresh pork belly to make my own lard, which is the best fat to use when making roasted breakfast potatoes.  Dinner potatoes with rosemary are better with olive oil, though.), the dishes were all very easy to make, so this time both Tawn and I were relaxed enough to really enjoy the party and the answer to the question is definitely, “Yes!”

 

PR and DYI

P1060004 A relaxing start to the weekend at Chez Chris and Tawn.  Well, not exactly, and I’ll talk more about it in a moment.  But in the meantime, efforts are being made to ensure that Tawn is well pampered, right.

You may recall that about two months ago we had a photo shoot for Elle Decoration magazine’s Thailand edition.  There was a full day shoot in which the house was turned upside down while I was banished to the balcony and eventually just left home for the day.

As much as I wasn’t keen about doing the photo shoot, Tawn felt it was important both to build his image (he does PR and one day wants to work freelance so his image is important) and our designer is always looking for some free publicity.

P1060273 So no sooner had the shoot finished and the story had been confirmed with Elle – the spin on the story is “A Baker’s Home” – then Tawn accepted another request for a photo shoot, this one from Daybeds. 

The story this time is “A Peaceful Sanctuary” and instead of doing small, focused shots as Elle did, this time the entire house was staged beforehand and then the photographer just came through and shot rooms.  This necessitated a whole truckload of different decorations to be brought in from Ble’s store and a whole balcony worth of decorations to be moved out to the balcony, left.

Needless to say, I didn’t stay at home for this photo shoot, either.  Promises have been made that there will be no more photo shoots as it is really, really far outside my comfort zone.

 

So what did we do this Saturday?  We finally tackled a home improvement project.  My father, the original do-it-yourselfer whose favorite place when we were growing up in Sunnyvale, CA was Orchard Supply Hardware, is hopefully proud to see how much of a chip off the old block I have become.  Who would have imagined that I possess the tinkerer’s gene?

The problem to be overcome was the drain for our washing machine.  For whatever reason (narrow ceilings?) the drain does not have a u-trap.  Since the hose from the washer does not fit snuggly in the drain, there has been plenty of room for unpleasant odors to leak out into the bathroom, made worse when you turn the ventilation fan on, thinking incorrectly that you’ll be drawing fresh air into the bathroom.

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The challenge was how to seal the opening to the drain while still being able to use it for the washing machine.  After a few trips to the hardware store and much heavy lifting to remove the 40 kg stacked dryer and the 80 kg washer, we settled on a solution:

P1060489 A pipe adapter, which steps down one size pipe to another, fit perfectly into the hole and created a narrower opening through which the washer hose could be placed.  I used acrylic putty around the pipe adapter, sealing it and ensuring it would stay in place.  After about an hour of letting the putty dry, I reinserted the hose and then used the old MacGyver standby, duct tape, to create an airtight seal around it.

Finally, some shoving and heavy lifting saw the machines put back into place and we now have a bathroom free from the smell of mysterious drain odors.  We’ve even run a couple of loads of laundry just to make sure the drain wouldn’t back up.  So far, so good…

That task finished, we headed out for some lunch at our local pie shop (right) and then on to shopping errands to prepare for our breakfast gathering Sunday morning.  It is time to introduce my Khrungthep friends to my homemade buttermilk biscuits.

Looking at my notes, I see that there are many other things I need to write about including some catch up from days past.  Soon, soon, soon.